Author: Dr. Gay Nerd

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Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Should I go back?

Ask Dr. Gay Nerd advice

Dear Dr. Gay Nerd

My boyfriend dumped me about a month ago.  We were together for almost a year.  He said, “Even though our relationship is really good, I’m not sure if staying with you is going to help me become the person I want to be.”  But we’ve been talking over the past few days about getting back together.  I’m still in love with him.  He says he really misses me and wants to take it slow, one day at a time.  I just don’t know what to do.  My head tells me don’t do it and my heart says go for it.  I don’t know if I can handle losing him again.  What should I do?

Is The Cake a Lie?

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Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Sparkle and Shine

Comic writer and famed ornithologist Gail Simone recently posted the above on her tumblr. Being a follower and a fan, I asked if I could use Gail’s inquiry for Dr. Gay Nerd, and she kindly agreed. Normally we condense the opinions of our contributors into a single response, but this time we’re going to let the Gay Nerds Panel share their individual coming out stories and offer their advice.