Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: What Should I Do About My Closeted Girlfriend?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and four months now. At the very beginning it was kind of awkward for us because not only had we never dated any girls, we’d also never anyone. She was the first girl I’d ever liked, and she still claims I’m the only...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd – Is Facebook The Magical Answer?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I was checking my college friend’s facebook the other day, and I found the profile of one of her classmates, he was kinda cute so I decided to check it. While I was there I found out that he likes Lady Gaga, Kylie, Britney, etc, and I was like “psh of...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Flirt?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- I’m kind of a shy, quiet guy. I’ve got my group of friends who I’m social with, but I’m not the most outgoing person with others. Lately, there’s been this boy at work who’s been pretty flirty with me. He’s pretty cute although he’s not really the type of guy I’ve...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Smart Nerdy Boys Are Hot
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd Smart Nerdy boys are hot, they get my juices going. They talk smart, look all cute and are totally always having good ideas for games, movies and most are wild in bed. Athletic Nerds are even better, their like finding the toy in the cheerios box. The problem is gay nerd...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Even Begin?
Hey “Dr.” Gay Nerd I am a college student in a small rural college town, and don’t really fit in anywhere. Obviously I’m gay, and so I don’t fit into straight society, but I also find that I have next to nothing in common with gay society. I’m shy and socially awkward (I think due...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Important is Sexual Attraction at First?
Dear Dr. Gay nerd, As your biggest gay Sudanese fan I wanna thank you for all the relationship advice which is relatable to me as a gay nerd, it really help me to go out there and meet interesting people. Doctor, I really need your advice, I met that guy recently, he’s everything I look...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Break Out of my Shell?
Doctor, I need help. I’m a shy person and it’s hard for me to participate in social situations. Whenever I’m around people I get uncomfortable and all my insecurities boil to the surface. It’s even more difficult because I’m gay(duh). I’ve only been with one person sexually but that was six years ago. Recently, thanks...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Get The Timing Right?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, and I want us to be official. We’ve been out on three dates so far. Their first two dates were dinner and then dinner and a movie (pretty casual stuff), but on the third, I went over his house to cuddle...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: What Do I Look For In a Partner?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I am a lonely gamer and want to have a boyfriend, don’t we all, but the main issue I’m running into is I’m not sure what it is that I am looking for in a partner. How can I find out what it is I’m looking for then look for him?...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How is Dating Supposed to Feel?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I am currently not in a relationship, nor have I been. Most of the time, I am not really too hampered by it. It would be nice to have someone to use that extra dusty Wiimote or be my support mage during Larp season, but it is not something I felt...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Important is Sex in my Relationship?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- I really hope you can set my head straight here. I’ve started thinking that it would be nice to be in a steady relationship for a change, and I’ve met this guy who’s cute, smart and I get along well with. During our first couple of dates we stayed up late...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Am I Giving Up Too Easily?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I’ve been dating for a while now and have met a healthy variety of guys, but none of them progress further than 4 or 5 dates. I’ve become friends with 1 or 2 of them, but even the friendships we share fail to evolve into something as profound as what I...
GOTI Lookin’ for Love in All the Wrong Places
Those of you who listen to GN’s weekly podcast know that one of my resolutions for the New Year is to go out on at least one date. For the sake of clarity (and saving face), this goal is about motivating myself to give the whole dating thing another chance more than anything else. I’m...
