Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: What Should I Do About My Closeted Girlfriend?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and four months now. At the very beginning it was kind of awkward for us because not only had we never dated any girls, we’d also never anyone. She was the first girl I’d ever liked, and she still claims I’m the only...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Handle My Religious Cousin?
Dear Sir, or Madam, I have a cousin and her boyfriend who means well in trying to help me “see the light.” She is a pushy religious girl who sees her way the only way and thinks she needs to help me be come a better “Saint.” I want to respect them and...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: I’m a Male Cheerleader!
Dear Dr.Gaynerd, I’m as tall as a 5 foot and 9 inch tree, athletic, goofy, bubbly, and somewhat of a flamer. But this is where the problem is, Dr! I’m confused about my sexuality! Let me start this off and give you all the information. In 9th, 10th, and 11th grade I went to the...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: I’m Being Hit On At Work and I Don’t Like It
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- I’ve been out for a long time and figure that because I’ve been open with it for so long, that it’s an obvious fact that I’m gay. Most people who I meet in new situations figure it out pretty quickly, although I meet some here and there who are surprised. That...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Is It Okay to Change My Image?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd Lately I’ve been going out a lot more, meeting gay people, etc. Sometimes I go to college parties and people are just looking for someone to make out, which I’m totally fine with. What I’m not fine with is my body. I don’t suppose one would consider me fat and several...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Live With Myself After a Moment of Weakness?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- I feel like I really screwed up. Up until pretty recently, I was a virgin. I waited a little longer than most people because I’ve always thought that it should be something special. But I went to this party and got drunk and someone started flirting pretty heavily with me. We...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Help! I Fell In Love With My Best Friend!
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- There was this boy and we had a pretty instant connection. We grew to be fast friends and then a bigger attraction began to simmer between us. Eventually, I worked up the courage to tell him that I had feelings for him. He reciprocated the sentiments, although he confessed that he...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd – Is Facebook The Magical Answer?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I was checking my college friend’s facebook the other day, and I found the profile of one of her classmates, he was kinda cute so I decided to check it. While I was there I found out that he likes Lady Gaga, Kylie, Britney, etc, and I was like “psh of...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Flirt?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd- I’m kind of a shy, quiet guy. I’ve got my group of friends who I’m social with, but I’m not the most outgoing person with others. Lately, there’s been this boy at work who’s been pretty flirty with me. He’s pretty cute although he’s not really the type of guy I’ve...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Smart Nerdy Boys Are Hot
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd Smart Nerdy boys are hot, they get my juices going. They talk smart, look all cute and are totally always having good ideas for games, movies and most are wild in bed. Athletic Nerds are even better, their like finding the toy in the cheerios box. The problem is gay nerd...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Even Begin?
Hey “Dr.” Gay Nerd I am a college student in a small rural college town, and don’t really fit in anywhere. Obviously I’m gay, and so I don’t fit into straight society, but I also find that I have next to nothing in common with gay society. I’m shy and socially awkward (I think due...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Important is Sexual Attraction at First?
Dear Dr. Gay nerd, As your biggest gay Sudanese fan I wanna thank you for all the relationship advice which is relatable to me as a gay nerd, it really help me to go out there and meet interesting people. Doctor, I really need your advice, I met that guy recently, he’s everything I look...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Follow My Heart?
Dear Dr Gay Nerd I have a crush on a gay guy, and to me he is as close to Mr Right as I have yet to find. But as these things usually are, it’s more complicated than this. This guy is a long time friend and a room mate of one of my best...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Break Out of my Shell?
Doctor, I need help. I’m a shy person and it’s hard for me to participate in social situations. Whenever I’m around people I get uncomfortable and all my insecurities boil to the surface. It’s even more difficult because I’m gay(duh). I’ve only been with one person sexually but that was six years ago. Recently, thanks...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Can I Stop Being a Douche?
I’m in a relationship with the guy of my dreams. I am a total dork; I could give a plethora of examples, but my crowning achievement was getting a research grant to study video game music in college… so enough said. My boyfriend thinks that the fact that I am a nerd is hot. On...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Get The Timing Right?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, and I want us to be official. We’ve been out on three dates so far. Their first two dates were dinner and then dinner and a movie (pretty casual stuff), but on the third, I went over his house to cuddle...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: Should I Tell Him?
Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I’m about to move out from my parent’s house to a new place with a few friends. I’m really excited except for one thing, I have this straight friend and he is really cool and, well, I’m madly in love with him .-. . Now guess who is also going to...
Ask Dr. Gay Nerd: How Do I Make Him Understand?
A Note From Dr. Gay Nerd: We’ve had a recent influx of questions submitted and in the interest of answering everyone’s questions in a timely manner, I’ll be doing my best to post double articles every week to get you the feedback you’re looking for! Dear Dr. Gay Nerd, I was in a relationship with...
